Life Lesson to my younger peeps:
You can either a) have someone else load the dishwasher or b) load it yourself and have it "your way" (aka "the right way"). There is no option c. Learn this lesson now and save yourself years of needless arguments and frustration.
In the end does it really matter? If a dishwasher is loaded "wrong" in Virginia and you're not there to see it, was it still loaded wrong?
Most importantly, never forget: having to compromise on this does not mean you don't have to say thank you. You ALWAYS have to say thank you even if you thought it could have been done better.
(PS- even when you're loading dishes it's still being done wrong according to someone.)
